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2 Chicks and 1 Old Lady

Two sisters taking care of their mom while trying to live life and find love.


The New Standard

Have you ever gotten to a point in your life where you got tired of being defined by other people’s perceptions? Where you decided that you had to change the “radio station” of your life, or you would go crazy. Well, I’m there. I’m ready to set a “new standard” on how I define myself.


I have a lot of titles right now; I’m a Caregiver, Daughter, Sister, Blogger, Cook, Counselor, Friend, etc. etc. My list is long and strong. If I got “paid” for all of these “titles”, I would be the richest person in the world. But, I’m sure everyone with a long list of “titles” feels the same way. But, do they really describe who we are? 

I don’t know about you. But, this list isn’t even close to describing me smile. I also am a foodie, makeup junkie, rap music loving nerd. Yes, I’m a nerd who loves action movies and heels. I also love to travel, and have been known to do anything I set my mind to do. But, no one hears about those things because I became consumed with focusing on just being a caregiver. I focused so much on taking care of my family, and keeping my sanity that I boxed myself into one “title”, and stopped living my fullest life. Well, no more.


I’m ready to share all of the “titles” that define me, and I hope you join me on the journey. Let’s talk about emotions, family, love, fun, makeup, and anything else our hearts desire. Caregiving is a life altering process, and we can’t change that. But, we can change how we approach it. So, welcome to the new standard!

I’ll be sharing new content about my life adventures with fashion, food, love, and of course the other chick and old lady smile. So, tell me in the comments below if there is any topic you need information on. Also, follow me on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Pinterest to keep up with us!


I’m so excited to share with you! It’s a new standard for all of us! Until we meet again!





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Comments (4)

  • MJ


    28 March 2016 at 23:04 |
    I'm excited to see you and your adventures. The New Standard is perfect. I need a new standard in my world too.


    • Pam


      28 March 2016 at 23:21 |
      Thank you MJ! You were just the push I needed. I'm so glad we connected! There are some great things ahead for both of us!


  • Nika


    04 April 2016 at 16:00 |
    This was great read. Very relatable. I believe many of us have many hats but only allow a few to shine more than the rest. I'm looking forward to your many talents reflecting. It's only one of us all. Love it!


    • Pam


      04 April 2016 at 22:19 |
      Thank you so much Nika! It's all about being happy. I wish you all of the best too. Thanks for sharing the journey with me :-)!


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