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15February

Lights, Camera, Clothes and Self-Love

Hi everyone! I feel like it’s been forever since I’ve talked to you. 2017 has started off quickly, and I’ve been struggling catching up. “Stepping into the light” has been rewarding. But, it really opens you up to lots of new “experiences and tests”.  It’s amazing how this journey is bringing me full circle with my faith, strength, heart and self. But, that’s another blog or vlog post…. It’s coming soon. I just need to take some time to really process it. But, to help prepare me for that moment, I want to talk about self-care.

When was the last time that “YOU” were a priority? Or you took the time to do something special for yourself? This year I’ve decided to make my happiness a priority. Remember, when you’re not happy, no one else will be. It’s all about balance.  So, to help kick off the year I went to a stylist and did a photo shoot.  

I worked with Christina Marsico of Fashionality. Christina and I went shopping at Macy’s in Millennia, and found several pieces to help me update my wardrobe. It was so much fun, and Christina is extremely patient. Let’s just say we made magic happen with only a lunch hour to spare. Christina is the perfect person to help you update your closet, or to help you find the perfect style for an upcoming event. She’s affordable, patient, flexible and stylish. That’s a winning combo to me. So, definitely check her out.

 

So, check out some of my shots from my photo session with the amazing Shakira McGowan. She’s such a talented photographer, with an amazing eye. Check out her site for examples of her work and to book her. Also, let me know what you’re doing to take care of YOU.

 

Until we meet again live in the light, and shine bright like the star you are kiss.

 

Xo

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photo: Shakira McGowan

 

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photo: Shakira McGowan

 

Posted in Front Page

09January

Five Steps To Change Your Life Right Now

 

Hi everyone! How’s your week going? Has anyone else been struggling with getting back into your routine? My mind still feels like it’s on vacation . I’m getting it together. But, the struggle is so real. Oh well, this is our year to “step into the light”; so I’m hoping the sun can wake me up smile.

Speaking of “stepping into the light”, how’s that going for you? What have you been doing to get closer to making your dreams a reality? Remember, you weren’t born to stay in the shadows. You were meant for greatness, and the only way to get closer to your purpose is to be intentional with everything in your life.

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I know it can be hard to make time for “you.”  But, you can’t let that be an excuse. You’re too valuable to the world and your family to be mediocre. So, I want to share five tips that I’m following to live my best life possible. 

  • Invest in yourself:  Do something that will enhance you as a person. I’m continuing with my love of audiobooks and podcasts to expose me to new people and ways of thinking. Step out of your comfort zone, you never know where it may take you.
  • Take care of yourself physically and mentally: I’ve started a “lifestyle change” this year. I’m working out 3-4 times per week, and watching my diet by reducing carbs and sugar. I’m pre-diabetic with a genetic predisposition towards developing Type II Diabetes. So, I’ve made the decision that it’s time to take care of me. My body is a temple, and I need to value it.

 

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  • Connect with people who will pull you into the light:  There are going to be people you come across that speak directly to your soul. You know those people that you feel like you’ve known for years, but you may have just met. Connect with those people immediately. Ask them to lunch, coffee, etc.; just make sure you reach out to them. There is purpose in those connections, and you don’t want to potentially miss your purpose due to shyness or procrastination.
  • Take a chance: Believe in yourself, and go do something. We tend to be the biggest obstacles in our lives. Stop letting F.E.A.R. (False Evidence Appearing Real) dictate your life. Remember you’re capable of accomplishing anything you put your mind on. There is never failure in trying. There is only failure when you do nothing. 
  • Remember you’re the happiness you’re seeking: I say this often, and I’ll keep saying it until we all remember this without hesitation. “Your happiness is key to everything. No one in your home will be happy, unless you’re happy.” You have to do the work to find your happy. Happiness doesn’t just happen.

  

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You have to invest time and energy into yourself, to discover what makes your heart sing. Remember, you’re worth it.You have to become a top priority in your life.

 

My next post is going to be on “self-care”. So, let me know what you want to learn more about in the comments. This is our journey, so we’re in this together kiss. Until we meet again, do something for you today!

 

Xo

Posted in Front Page

05January

Standards: How To Reinforce Them & The Right To Real Love

My Podcast with Jay Mayo & the Right To Real Lovers

Hello everyone! How has the first week of 2017 been for you? I hope you’re kicking it off with a blast, full of love and intention to make this the best year possible. If you need some tips on how to really make it happen. Then, check out my last post for some tips that I’m using to make 2017, my year of ‘stepping into the light”. I hope you’ll join me on the journey.

Part of my journey involves continuing to do things that scare me, and being the love that I want to attract in my life. So, that led me to sit down and have an amazing conversation with Jay Mayo of Right To Real Love.

 

Source: Jay Mayo, President and CEO of Right to Real Love

 

I had the opportunity to connect with Jay Mayo at Blogalicious 8 in October. Check out my recap of that amazing experience here. Jay’s podcast for Right To Real Love is a Christian Based platform that is a resource for all of us on the journey to be loved the right way. The Right to Real Love community is very active, and really strives to apply practical tips that can impact every area of our life.

 

Our conversation was on standards, and the importance of stabling and reinforcing them to ensure you live your best life. Check out our conversation here. It’s broken down into three parts to make it work for your schedule. 

Part One: How to Reinforce Your Standards and Make Others Respect Them

Part Two: How To Reinforce Your Standards and Make Others Respect Them

Part Three: How To Reinforce Your Standards and Make Others Respect Them

 

Also, here is Jay’s info to connect with him & the Right To Real Love audience.

Jay Mayo Twitter: https://twitter.com/iamjaymayo

Right to Real Love Twitter: https://twitter.com/RTRLRadio

 

Let me know what you think in the comments below. Make sure your standards are together. Until we meet again!

 

 

Xo

 

 

Posted in Dating Tips

01January

Five Tips For Stepping Into The Light in 2017

Happy New Year everyone! I hope you've had an amazing holiday filled with family and friends. I just wanted to drop a quick vlog to kick off 2017. My plan for 2017 is to focus on "stepping into the light". I typically am a "behind the scenes" type of person. I always have felt comfortable just doing what I need to do, and moving on quietly. But, I'm learning that the call on my life is too big for that. 

I'm learning that my journey can help someone, so I can't be afraid to share it. So, I want you to take the journey of "stepping into the light" with me.  To kick things off, here are five tips to help you get started. Let me know what you think, and anything I can share that will make it easier for you. We're in this together :-).

 

 

1.  Here are some of my favorite books & podcasts:

     The Secret by Rhonda Byrne 

     The Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes

     I'm Judging You by Luvvie Ajayi 

     Heart and Hustle Podcast 

     Happy Black Woman Podcast 

    Stuff Mom Never Told You Podcast 

 

2. You're the happiness that you seek. When you're happy, everyone will be happy. Be open to being happiness, and make yourself a priority.

 

3. Take care of yourself physically. Do whatever you need to do to make your body/health a priority. Be proactive about your health.

 

4. Take the time to connect with people who will pull you into the light. Don't be afraid of people who make you step outside of your comfort zone. 

 

5. Just step out. Take a chance on yourself, and do the things that you never thought you could do. Don't let the end of 2017 look like the end of 2016. 

 

We've got this! This is just the beginning of our journey, it's not about perfection. It's about living our best life. Let's thrive in the sun together. I can't wait to hear about how you're doing. Until we meet again!

 

Xo

 

Posted in Front Page, Caregiving

20December

Holidays & At Home Hearing Tests with Miracle Ear

 

 Hi everyone! Are you ready for the holidays? I’m still shopping; but I’m almost done. Thank you Jesus!! My budget and spirit are especially happy laughing. I can’t wait to sit down and spend time catching up with my mom and sister. I know I see them everyday. But, it’s so hard with all of the demands of work and life to spend true quality time catching up. I really love those times.

That’s when I get to hear all of the stories of my mom’s childhood. It’s so inspiring to hear all of the love, and the simplicity of things back then. I also love getting the good “deets” or “tea” on how my mom used to act when she was younger wink. My mom was a quite a pistol back in the day, so I don’t want to miss anything. That’s why I was so excited to partner with Miracle Ear.

 

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We really take our hearing for granted. I spend over 50% of my day listening to loud music in my car or through my headphones, and I couldn’t tell you the last time I got my hearing tested. Unfortunately, it was something I didn’t make a priority. So, imagine how surprised I was to find out that Miracle Ear offers FREE at home hearing tests. Yep, you can do it at home.

 

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All you need to do is sign on to your computer, and go to the Miracle Ear website. Once on the site, you’ll click on the hearing test feature; and begin the test. The test is super easy; it mimics different scenarios where you’re having a conversation with someone in a public place with background noises   (e.g. home, coffee shop, train station, etc.). The goal is to make sure you’re able to follow the conversations, and you’ll be asked questions to make sure you captured the conversation. Gone are the days of listening for the beep. This test uses real-life situations to evaluate your hearing levels.

Hearing Test 

Your results are available immediately after the test, and you’re given tips on things you can do to preserve your hearing, or advised if you should be evaluated further for a hearing device. The information is presented in a way that shows Miracle Ear wants to be your partner in ensuring your hearing is enhanced and/or preserved. You’re even able to email the results to yourself to review later, or share with your family.

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Miracle Ear really wants to make sure we’re living our best lives possible through preserving or enhancing our hearing. I would totally give this test to mom. Mom tends to get nervous when we go to any doctor’s office. But, this at home hearing test gives me an easy way to get an idea of her hearing levels in a non-intrusive way. That can be a god’s send when dealing with seniors. Their independence is so important to them, and they’re scared of anything that jeopardizes that.

 

So, thank you Miracle Ear for making me think about my own hearing, on top of giving me a solution that I can use for my mom. Make sure you check out this great test, and all of the things that Miracle Ear offers. We also deserve to “hear a better day”. Until we meet again!

 

 

Xo

Posted in Front Page, Caregiving

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